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Precious, and not so precious, antiques

9/12/2013

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I can't help it. I love watching The Antiques Roadshow. Somehow the treasure seeking aspect has me in thrall. The idea that an object once thought worthless could be valued at thousands of dollars seems to me to be a miracle - a nickel found under a floorboard, and old canvas tucked beneath a new one, or a long forgotten toy in the original box.

And therein lies the rub. How do ordinary people not search for that nickel? Who can afford a hidden masterpiece in the first place - much less have the where with all to cover it up with a new painting? And what child doesn't play with a favorite toy until it falls apart? And forget the box. It gets thrown away within the first week.

I have plenty of what could have been pricey first-edition children's book, but they all bear the marks of crayons held in chubby fists - my first attempt to form the words I loved so well. Raggedy Ann and Andy, The Water Babies Circus, Bambi, Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer, and many others all reside on a special shelf in the library. But each and every one is defaced by my toddler attempts at penmanship - including the myriad Munro Leaf's, which were one of my mother's many attempts to make me civilized.

My own children have encouraged me to "keep on looking" because so-called primitives are all the rage, and my forth generation home is full of things that are odd enough and old enough. But there again, each one is missing a handle, a knob, or some other essential part that would make it worth anything.

My grandmother did have some glass that was valuable, but it disappeared along with twelve place settings of English china when we were robbed nine years ago. Added together, they would probably bought a decent little used car today. But priceless?

So I have to settle for watching other folks jump for joy when they find a personal treasure, and realize that mine is all around me. My wonderful family, the natural beauty of the farm I've inherited, and - yes - the eccentric old home I live in, with its myriad "primitives", are the treasures I'm blessed with.

Thank you, God. And phooey on The Antiques Roadshow.



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September 04th, 2013

9/4/2013

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DAUGHTERS

The thing about daughters - wonderful ones like I am blessed with, anyway - the thing is the are just so - well, wonderful!

They know how to make you laugh - and how often - and they also know how to make you cry, but not too much. They always suppress that little bit of personal pain that they know would send us over the top. The last thing they want to deal with is "mother monster" going after the boyfriend, teacher, friend, co-worker, boss who has hurt them. A fate too horrible to contemplate!

And then there are the hugs. They give such good, warm, and accepting hugs. Hugs that you know mean they forgive you for all the guilt you harbor from past motherly transgressions - like feeding cold formula by mistake, yelling when they're about to touch the stove, refusing a road trip when "everyone else is going," and making fun of the pimply face youth they think is just "dreamy."

The grown-up mistakes we make, of course, are more awful and require a quiet talk AND hug.
You knew when you suggested that they live closer to home that they would miss the opportunities of a lifetime. You warned them that buying the great "fixer upper" would be a back breaking ordeal even though they were willing because it was such a great price.

You sometimes sour their wonderful youthful enthusiasm with dire warnings that may or may not ever happen - but why open your mouth in the first place. It's their life. Let them live it to the fullest - enjoy it to the mostest. Have FUN!

Sigh! It's hard, the being a mother thing - all the way. But it's also such a complete delight, and well worth taking all the chances.
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W.H. Auden

8/24/2013

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"Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh."
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A Closet Full of Memories

8/22/2013

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We emptied an old closet today. It was packed to the brim with boxes and suitcases of memories from three generations of a family who can't throw things away - yet, they can stow them out of sight and not look back for thirty or forty years.

One old black paper embossed suitcase was filled with thin tissue missives - "v-mail" ( v for victory) from the early 1940's - letters from my parents to each other during World War II when he was a navy pilot and fighting overseas. They wrote to each other at least once, sometimes twice a day. Letters filled with love and longing - his, surprisingly, expressing his fear that he would never come back to his young wife and baby daughter, and hers full of funny little tales from home to cheer him up. The first two I read made my heart ache so I quit reading and closed the suitcase for someone else to deal with in another half century.

Another suitcase was overflowing with crocheted knick-knacks that certainly must have had a use a one point in time. There were lots of embroidered pillowcases and table runners, and a special little box with handmade baby clothes. They were mine. I'm sure my sister wore them, too. There was no time to make clothes for her since we were too busy after the war too do anything but celebrate and catch up with living.

There were lots of photographs. Photographs of intermediate family and kissing cousins - and one special old tin type of a very stern looking matriarch in stiff and starchy clothes, with a firm and disapproving face and tightly done up hair. I have no idea who she was, but someone loved her because that very unflattering picture was set in a velvet frame with a lovely little door that opened and closed with a sliver clasp.

And that started me thinking - the next person to go through this closet - because I know I'm not throwing anything away - won't find any pictures of me, or my husband, or my adult children. All our pictures are in the little electronic bellies of smartphones and ipads. They're out there somewhere on a "cloud" not in a old musty closet. More's the pity.

It will be a sad day when there are no more packets of love letters tied with velvet ribbons, or old dance cards with names circle in red and embellished with hearts. Now we send electronic texts and smiley faces to express our love. And it's not for the first time that I think we're moving so fast our souls are falling off the wagon. We may be hurtling into a new age but what we are losing is precious.
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August 21st, 2013

8/21/2013

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Today is a beautiful day here on the farm. The sun is shining, fleecy white clouds are meandering slowly across the clear blue sky, and the birds are having a merry time pulling long yucky worms out of the newly mown grass.

But my mystery writer's heart is saddened by the recent news that Elmore Leonard has died. He was (in a word) wonderful - a beacon for wordsmiths. His advice was usually the best, but there is one thing I always took great pleasure in ignoring. Contrary to his list of the ten things never to do if you're a mystery writer - I ALWAYS start my books with a description of the weather.

Clearly I loved being just that little bit of a rebel - disobeying the master to see if I could get away with it. So first grade, I know, but I have to get my fun where I can or what's the use of all this work in the first place? And to make matters worse, I always bragged about it when giving seminars or serving on panels at conferences.

I live on a farm, for goodness sakes! I may not be a real farmer, but my grandfather was in his later years, and my father - when he retired from NASA, had two gardens every summer. We lived depending on the weather. We raised corn and alfalfa for the animals, and tomatoes, beans, peppers, eggplant, cucumbers and squash for out table.

The first thing a farmer asks every morning is what's the weather like? And that usually depends on what God decides to do before he goes to bed at night. So now, I tell everyone who reads my books what it's like - first thing. And then we go on from there.


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    E. Joan Sims

    I live on a farm in beautiful western Kentucky very much like the one I describe in the Paisley Sterling Mysteries. I share the 155 year-old former log home with my husband and our dog Spencer.

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